All content on success and happiness tells you about what you need to do more of.

What about things we need to unlearn?

What about things you should lose?

Here are 6 common habits you need to lose or unlearn to boost your happiness levels and become truly successful.

Worrying about other people’s opinions

Worrying about what everyone thinks can paralyze you and jeopardize the simplest of your decisions. Regardless of what you do, someone will always judge you.

So, why not just go ahead with what you feel is right, for you?

Once you stop bothering yourself with what others think, you will make better decisions with confidence and feel free!

Trying to make everyone happy

This is another impossible task! Try what you may but you can’t. There will always be something you did or didn’t do or someone who doesn't agree with what you did. Once you accept this fact, you can feel more confident about your actions and learn to listen to your inner truth.

Asking “why”

Most people ask ‘why’ or ‘why me’ when things don’t go their way. Any answer to ‘why’ will always justify the problem. In fact, it often leads to blaming self, other people or the situation rather than looking for a solution. Letting go of the need to always know ‘why’ to something will help you focus your energy on ‘what next’ or ‘what else’ and feel more at peace!

Sometimes, we’ll not have an answer or reason for something, and accepting that allows you to move forward to bigger and better things.

Only the rules

Rules are important, but sometimes, the most incredible things happen out of the box. In making your own rules, you can carve a new path that works for you and not look back! Some of your biggest successes have been achieved by doing things differently.

Sharing everything with everyone

Do you feel the share all your decisions with everyone? Usually, we do this to get other opinions on the matter. But getting several different points of view may confuse you and you may never feel entirely confident about any decision. Once you start making decisions based on your wisdom and desires, you can completely own your success and happiness.

Perfectionism

Do you suffer from perfectionism? Nothing is ever truly perfect. Always striving for the impossible can exhaust you, jeopardize your own efforts and make you feel less than, because you are holding yourself to an unrealistic standard. Embrace your imperfections, and realize that it is a part of your uniqueness!

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