And no matter how many times she tells him that she wants foreplay, no matter how many times he hears it from someone or reads it in Cosmo... he is still hesitant about actually doing it.

The reason why is still a little bit of a mystery to me. Me, myself, personally... I love foreplay, whether a toy is involved or not. The toys just make it all the more fun.

But nevertheless, I'd like to offer a new perspective on foreplay with the hopes that it will change at least one man's mind about it and get him to fall in love with teasing and pleasing his woman.

The world of foreplay reaches far beyond eating her out or kissing her neck. Thanks to the Bullet, the Jack Rabbit, and even the plain ol', traditional dildo... foreplay has turned into more of a fetish than actual sex.

There are literally billions of dollars spent every year on high end sex toys and fetish dungeons. Now, I'm not asking you to dive in head first... all I'm trying to get you to do is pick up a tiny little luxury vibrator and use it.

It's not that hard, is it? (No pun intended)

And you don't even have to be the one who uses it on her... let her do it herself and you can watch. All I want you to do is allow it to enter the bedroom with you.

If you just start slow and let her play with it, you'll notice very quickly that all the blood will start rushing towards the right places.

The image of a woman masturbating is unbelievably sexy.

Now, if you don't feel that way, or if you feel a little bit intimidated by the toy, realize this...

The toy is not replacing you in any way, shape, or form. There is nothing that can replace the feeling of flesh against flesh.

The only thing that the toy is going to do is enhance the experience for both you and her.

Out of the hundreds of women that I've interviewed, there was not one woman who told me that she preferred a dildo over the real thing. However, they did want to use a toy during intimacy with their partner.

And many of them wanted to give up all control and have their partners take the lead with the toy. He could do practically whatever his imagination told him to do... and she was perfectly fine with it.

Toys can turn her on extremely quickly. Not just because of their function but because of the thoughts that are going through her mind when you use them on her.

It takes a lot of the pressure off of you, because if there was no toy in the mix, you would have to either massage her sweet spot or eat her out, etc. The toy can take care of all of that for you.

Now, if you actually eat her out WHILE you're using the high quality sex toys (https://www.mysecretluxury.com/)... watch out! She'll lose her mind and will most likely attack you.

And that's a very, very good thing.