Modern culture has placed a disproportionate emphasis on male organ size, to the extent that a man with even a slightly small male organ may feel embarrassed or distraught because he lacks a tool of staggeringly large dimensions. Other factors such as male organ health and skill in the use of the member are usually far more important than length or girth, yet male organ size remains the asset that most men long for. There are some men, however, who possess what would be considered a small male organ but are perfectly comfortable with this; there are also others who possess a small organ and find a unique form of sensuous pleasure from this very fact, a pleasure derived from humiliation.



SPH



Small male organ humiliation (often simply referred to as SMOH) is a consensual form of psychological humiliation in which the perceived small size of a man's organ is commented upon for the purpose of creating a feeling of stimulating satisfaction. That satisfaction is often accompanied by a firming of the manhood (if it was not already firm), and frequently followed by release. Although humiliation may be a component of partner playtime or oral sensual gratification, often SMOH is paired with self-pleasuring. In some cases, the stimulation caused by verbal humiliation and exposure of the member may result in a release without the use of any external stimulation.



Size Varies



The real key to SMOH is humiliation rather than male organ size. In fact, a man with a very large manhood could conceivably participate in SMOH if he misperceives the size of his organ and believes it to be small. Men who participate in SMOH vicariously, through literature or visual aids in which a man with a diminished manhood suffers humiliation, can possess tools of any size. In this latter case, the man excited by the humiliating experiences of other men may be identifying with the humiliated man or with the person administering the humiliation.



Humiliation Varies



The degree of humiliation involved in an SMOH situation can vary significantly. Some men find it most satisfying when the humiliation is minimal. For example, a man who perceives his male organ size as inadequate may be excited by a partner who makes relatively benign comments couched in loving terms, such as, "Let me see my guy's little man," or, "He's a little bitty tool, but he packs a punch." These comments are slightly humiliating and infantilizing, but are largely accepting and nurturing.



For other men, tumescence is best achieved when the humiliation is more pronounced. This may involve the partner mocking a man’s male organ size in more aggressive terms while the two are alone. Some men also enjoy a public form of humiliation, such as being forced by a partner to admit to others that he has a small male organ or posting pictures of his organ online with derogatory comments.



Boundaries



Because every person's feelings are different, it is important for a man who engages in actual SMOH (as opposed to simply using SMOH-based visual aids) to be clear about what boundaries are relevant to him and to engage in SMOH only with partners who will respect those boundaries. For example, a man may want to do a role play in private in which he is forced to expose his manhood to others but might be uncomfortable if this went beyond the private role playing stage. Partners need to be on the same page in these matters.



Keep it healthy



When used properly and in situations that are comfortable for both partners, small male organ humiliation can be liberating for certain men. In some cases, it can help a man stop focusing undue attention on male organ size and concentrate on other issues, such as the health of his tool. One excellent way to maintain that health, whether of a small, medium or large member, is the use of a top-notch male organ health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). A cream with vitamin A has the added bonus of helping to fight unwanted manhood odors; if it also contains vitamin C, which promotes collagen production and tissue firmness into old age, it’ll put a man ahead of the game.