"Gentlemen, start your engines" is often code indicating that a male organ is filling with blood to prepare for a thrilling sensual encounter. But what happens if one's partner is also starting her engine – and in this case, the engine is an actual vibrating toy? Men tend to like competition, but it's easier if the playing field is level; even if a man is a devotee of excellent male organ care, can his human tool hope to compete with her electric tool? The answer is yes – if he prepares properly. These lovemaking tips can help.

Know your enemy.
If a man is going to overcome an enemy, it's best if he knows everything he can about it – and that includes a pleasure toy. Some men will balk at this, but a guy can learn a lot by using a vibrating toy himself. There is a wide range of shapes, sizes and features on the market, so knowing what's out there and how all of them work is probably beyond the capability of most men. Still, exploring some of the options – a vibrating egg, a vibrating wand, etc. – is within the reach of most men. And it can be fun.

After having selected a vibrating toy, a man needs to use it on his own member to see what kind of sensations it inspires. If he’s comfortable, he can also indulge in at least a little posterior exploration as well. While the sensations this evokes may not be comparable to those created when a vibrating toy explores a woman's organ, it at least gives a man some idea of the way in which the instrument is held, moved and utilized. Besides, many men find that posterior stimulation is pleasurable.

Watch and learn.
If one's partner is willing, a man can learn a great deal from observing her as she pleasures herself. Whether using a vibrating toy or not, the manner in which she fingers and stimulates herself, the strokes that she uses, the angles that she employs, the rhythms that she favors – all of this is valuable information that a man can use himself, whether pleasuring her with his hands, his mouth or his manhood.

Of special interest is the way in which the vibrating toy is employed. A man may not have an electronic motor inside his body, but he can simulate a decent degree of vibratory motion when having sensual activity. Pay attention to the vibratory rate that one's partner uses (and how she may change that rate at various times), as well as to the shallowness or depth of penetration of the device. It's also essential to note the movement of the partner's legs, with an emphasis on when she spreads the legs wide and when she clutches them tightly closed.

Don't stick with the member.
The male member is an excellent organ, but the fingers and tongue can also be employed to provide sensations similar to those obtained with the vibrating toy. Oral sensual activity, properly performed, can create ecstasy in a woman; using one's finger or thumb to stimulate the sensitive areas inside and out can also be enormously effective. And a man shouldn't be afraid to let his partner guide him in his quest to give her sensual excitement.

Take advantage of it.
Finally, a man shouldn't be afraid of using his partner's vibrating toy in their mutual sensual play. Many women get a thrill when their man maneuvers the vibrating object around the erogenous zones. Using the vibrating tool can bring a woman to near release, allowing a firm male organ to then come in and bring it all home.

Of course, a male organ that is rough and sore may not feel up to competing with a vibrating toy – so regularly using a top-quality male organ health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) is clearly a good idea. Those creams that include L-arginine can help with nitric oxide production, which in turn helps with manhood blood flow. And the cream should also include acetyl L-carnitine, which helps restore lost sensitivity, in order to keep the member in full bloom in terms of experiencing pleasurable sensations.