It's easy to spot a guy who's out looking for a gift for his better half. All you need to do is go to the ladies department or jewelry section or even where they sell flowers. Once there look for either a man who is alone or maybe two or three men (they think two or more heads are better than one) walking around like the living dead. They will look lost, confused and bewildered.

A man will have an easier time looking for (and finding) the cure to the common cold, the Holy Grail and the lost city of El Dorado. But ask him to get a gift for a lady and he will give you a glassy eyed, thousand yards stare. So what do you get her? First of all what (if any) is the occasion? Her birthday? Your anniversary? A peace offering? Secondly, what is she like? A homebody would have as much use for a mountain bike as a party girl would with a set of silver knitting needles. With this in mind, here are a few general tips:

1) Clothes - If you know her well enough, this is a great gift since generally girls love to dress up. If you're not sure of her taste, try window shopping with her. If she sees something she likes but doesn't buy it, make a note of it and go back when she's not with you and buy it. This obviously is a sure fire way of making the right choice. It's cheating I know but hey, it works. Better yet, steer her towards a signature or designer collection and watch her choices then select one and get it later.

2) Jewelry - Nothing can make a girl brighten up more than a gift that shines and sparkles. If you're just the average Joe and not a billionaire, a gift of jewelry is a sign of commitment. A signal that you are taking her seriously. This is probably due to the price. One doesn't spend what could probably be a couple of months of savings on just anybody. Word of advice though: take note of the type and color of jewelry she does own and wears. That way whatever piece you give will complement her collection. If she has simple diamond earrings, a solitaire pendant will do nicely.

3) Vacations - Another great gift but again if you're just Joe the plumber, should be only given to the chosen few and again due to the price and time needed. With this gift you're telling her that she is that important to you and you want to spend time alone with her. Plan this out properly. A travel gift needs preparation since she may not be able to get away from work or school. Talk to her friends and get their help in scheduling this. By doing this you'll also earn a few points and get on their good side as well.

4) A Luxury sex toy - Providing she's into it, high quality sex toys (https://www.mysecretluxury.com/) for example Luxury vibrators are general, all purpose, and no occasion needed gifts. It signals that you are really into her (no pun intended) and that you would like to spice things up and keep the love alive.