What man doesn’t want a little bit of adventure in his life? Whether he is hoping to spice up a long-term relationship with a little exotic fun, or has yet to settle down and is still sowing his wild oats, there are certain fantasies many men have in their spank bank. Here are the top 10 sensual fantasies every man needs to experience – or role-play – to complete the ultimate bucket list. Guys may also learn a thing or two about how best to maintain male organ health while checking off these risqué exploits.


1. Have a threesome – It seems like every guy’s ultimate fantasy is to have a ménage-à-trois. What dude doesn’t want two ladies going bananas over him? While this may be the ultimate night out for a single guy, it can get much more complicated for those in a committed relationship. Think very hard before going down that road with a girlfriend or wife, as the much-coveted threesome has ruined many a relationship! Men should only enter into an encounter like this after some serious discussion – and full agreement. To have the same excitement sans contact, try visiting a strip club and getting a steamy lap dance in a private room as a couple – this stimulates the fantasy without taking it too far.

2. Have a one night stand – The idea of meeting a woman, hooking up with her and parting ways never to see each other again really gets a man going. This no-strings-attached type of encounter falls strictly on the single guy’s bucket list, but be sure to use protection and exchange a medical history before doing the deed. Though a guy may remember a one-night stand forever, he doesn’t need a memento of it in the form of a life-long infection.

3. Make a video – Sure, the lighting may not be Hollywood-worthy, and one is sure to see some unflattering angles, but making a video while doing the deed is a fun fantasy that any couple can do – so long as both parties are willing.

4. Join the mile-high club – What guy – or girl – hasn’t thought about hooking up in those tiny airplane bathrooms. The excitement of possibly getting caught ramps both people up for a fast and furious quickie.

5. Romance in the water –Maybe it’s because the movies always make it look hot, but who hasn’t fantasized about taking an adults-only swim? Just make sure to have an exit strategy if using a public body of water sans swimsuit,

6. Hook up in a public place – Whether the beach, woods, or a parked car piques a guy’s fancy, hooking up in a public place increases the risk factor and makes it exciting. Plan carefully before doing the deed, though – doing it on the beach sounds hot, but sand doesn’t feel so good on one’s private areas!

7. Do the Rear Admiral – Even if it turns out not to be a preferred position, every man needs to experience back-door entry at least once in his life – it’s like a rite of passage.

8. Hook up with a cougar – or a gold digger; the idea of sleeping with women much older or much younger than himself makes a man feel invincible, as if he could please any woman. Married? Ask the wife to do a little role playing – hello, hot schoolgirl outfit.

9. Engage in role play – The best selling 50 Shades series has suddenly made S & M and role play an exciting, acceptable practice. So take a page from the book (literally) and act out a little role play fantasy play – just don’t forget to establish a “safe” word.

10. Sleep with a foreign chick – There’s just something about a girl with an accent that drives men crazy. Take it to the next level and take her home – the less English she speaks, the better! Married guys can get in on the action too – a cute outfit and a fake accent can go a long way in the bedroom.

Keeping the male organ adventure-ready

Whether getting ready for a home-made film or prepping for an adult pool party, a man has to keep his member healthy and ready for action at all times. In order to achieve this, he needs to take excellent care of it by always using protection – nothing spoils a good exploit like a pregnancy or disease scare. Also, using a daily male organ vitamin crème (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) can help improve circulation to the area, which may provide greater levels of nutrient- and oxygen-rich blood, so he is ready for whatever comes his way!