Question: I am an almost 30-year-old man, and I recently resigned from my job. On my last day at work, an 18-year-old co-worker cornered me and kissed me. She told me that she is very attracted to me and said if I wanted her, she'd be mine.

We worked very closely together for the past four months and had gotten quite close as friends. The attraction is mutual. I find her to be a charming and beautiful girl. My concern is the age difference. I worry about how people will respond if we decide to enter into an age match relationship.

My friends are divided -- some say that I need to follow my heart, and others say that I shouldn't even be thinking about dating an 18-year-old.

Am I wrong for thinking about entering into a relationship with this girl? -- Uncertain Suitor

Answer: The red flags I see flying over this scenario are not only about the age difference between you two -- but about her behaviour.

If the genders were reversed in this situation, and it was an 18-year-old man who "cornered and kissed" a 30-year-old woman, I'd suggest that somebody might want to get the police involved.

Her behaviour is so aggressive that you only need to imagine what she might do if you dated and then dropped her. (Picture her perched in a tree and yelling into a megaphone outside your apartment.)

Take all of this into consideration, and if you still want to dip your toe into this pool of crazy, I say you two are (presumably) adults.

Ask to see her driver's license to verify her birth date, double check the laws of consent in your state, make sure her father's not the angry type, shake the bushes for high school football player boyfriends, be prepared to have at least one conversation about Miley Cyrus, and go for it.

It is a known fact that younger women are attracted to older men. Mostly younger women want to date older men than young men on http://oldermendatingyoungerwomen.org/agematch.html. When I say older, I don't necessarily mean that a twenty-five year old will date a man who's seventy-three. What I'm saying is that relative to their own age, women, in general, will date men that are a few years older than themselves.

Most women will admit that they want a strong man who can stand his own ground and be confident. Back in the day, this meant an egg fertilizer with blessed genetics who could hunt to feed his family while protecting them from predators.
Of course, today we live in a more civilized society. Women no longer need a mate, hunter or protector (they now have sperm clinics, supermarkets and police officers to do that). But because of her upbringing, a woman still expects a man to provide for his family. She now expects her man to be mature and provide financial stability along with long-term security. The only thing older men need to do is seduce them.