Relationships usually start off hot and heavy. But let's face it. Even good things can use some improving. I bet your wife's delicious pot roast could use some spicing up. Right? So, it's no surprise when the steamroller sex turns into a quick romp in the hay. There's hope out there for everyone suffering from this very common situation. Men, you may not know how to spice up a pot roast, but you can surely spice up the oooo la laaaaaas of the bedroom.

It's all about fun, fun, FUN! Anyone that has ever had sex knows about those oh soooo sensual and FUN things a woman keeps in her treasure trove. That's right - HER TOYS! If you and your honey have not yet ventured into this realm of playtime, then I strongly suggest you listen up buckos! Hold on and enjoy the ride because things are about to speed up in the bed (or wherever you may be when the urge hits).

Now guys, don't get your egos hurt by my suggestion of incorporating luxury sex toys (https://www.mysecretluxury.com/) into your sex life. There are men who LOVE seeing their wives have an orgasm while they please them with their high quality sex toys. Let's "face" it. You can't see her enjoyment from every angle when you're actually in her or your face is buried between her legs. Seeing her truly enjoy an orgasm is such a turn on for men. And trust me, she will still want the real deal with you and probably more often! You're not being replaced. You're just bringing in some variety. Sort of like trying a new exotic fruit instead of settling for watermelon all summer long. Create your very own show and tell as she tells you with her moans and groans what really turns her on. Both of you may be pleasantly surprised at what you learn.

Now, to do this right, you should go to any sex toys online store and see what the newest sex toys are. Personally (and yes, I mean from personal experience!), I like the rotating dildo with the vibrating bunny for stimulating the clit. Sends me right into convulsions! This item is sold under a variety of names, colors, textures depending on the site you visit. Toy lubricant should be on hand too. There are books with graphics indicating new positions you may want to try (once you've got her going), and of course, the proper method of keeping your new toys clean, clean, clean!

Approach your lady with this idea and involve her in the process of choosing your first toy. Hey, you may both get a turn on just thinking about this and picking your first toy. It's certainly going to bring a glow into your love life, and to your faces. Friends and work associates will notice a kick in your step and the confidence in your stance. So throw your ego aside for some extreme play time, and be sure to play nice.