The divorce can be mutual and that can make it easier for both, but that is usually not the case and many have money and children involved.
I don't feel that we need to go into the subject of divorce too much, everyone that has gone through it know how it affects one’s psyche and personal life.
However, we all know that what you feel like doing and what you should be doing is usually vastly different after a divorce.
Don't be alone and try to focus on meeting people that make you think about something else.
Don't deny what has happened or push down your feelings, embrace them and try to accept it instead, it will be much healthier long-term.
When you're back on track and start doing things you love again, you can start moving towards meeting someone new.
Getting back out there for me after my divorce was hard. First of all, we had a kid together so that made me one of all the single fathers in America.
Well, it made her a single mother as well, but she didn't want to be a part of our child’s life.
The second part was the fear of everything happening again, that was what made me not seeing someone new for at least a couple of years.
I do not recommend anyone to wait that long out of personal issues, it just makes everything so much harder when it's time.
I needed to be the best dad possible and if I was to see anyone, she needed to be ready for a child that isn't her own.
I succeeded at last after three years of being a single parent in America.
The way for me to get back on track was online dating.
This was because of two main reasons.
1. I could take it in my own pace and didn't feel any pressure from it.
2. I could talk with people I didn't know about things that was extremely personal, weirdly enough that felt easier than talking with someone who knew me.
I also couldn't stand meeting someone new through friends, partly because there was often alcohol involved and the other part was the pressure.
You’re not very interesting when you're not ready to open-up and other people (out of love) almost try to force it on you.
I don't blame anyone of them; it was just me who need a different approach.
The online dating site I used to find my current girlfriend was the site Blinddate.com™.
My son adores her by the way which is amazing in such a short amount of time.
I know that many are skeptical of online dating, but I can only tell you that the site helped me get back on track faster than my family and friends could.
What was special about that dating site was that it gave me the opportunity to meet people for who they really were, on the inside so to speak.
It is blind dating and the features I used are called Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour, but they really worked!
I think everything is still the same, but I heard that they got an upgrade which made the site even better and more secure.
I didn't meet a single rude or fake profile on there, and I have seen many of those on other sites.
Their whole concept is caring for their members and promoting our inner qualities.
It's still free and I have family and friends that currently use it after they've seen me being lucky.
Well, luck is the wrong word actually, because love is not based on luck there.
Anyway, I really urge everyone to give online dating through blind dating in America a chance.
There are so many divorced couples in America that are too afraid to try love again, don't become one of them.
Join Blinddate.com™ and take it at your own pace, I promise you that it will affect your life positively not only now, but your entire future as well.