Well BDSM may appear frightening or disturbing to those who are unfamiliar with the practice. Actually this type of play, and in turn the plus size lingerie that accompanies it, comes from the terms and ideas of bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism. BDSM is in fact a lifestyle, group affiliation, and interpersonal relationship. The lingerie that is worn within that life style also warrants some shock.

There are two main roles within its context, both of which either partner may fulfill. Typically one partner serves as the dominant one while the other is the submissive partner, and they don't often switch roles. Both positions within the relationship don different ensembles. BDSM lingerie incorporates leather and chains and sometimes high end sex toys (https://www.mysecretluxury.com/) like luxury vibrators. The leather and chains are considered part of the plus size lingerie set, despite many people thinking of leather and chains as merely accessories to the bondage.

From the head down, BDSM lingerie includes leather masks for the subservient position which may or may not be used. These masks sometimes have holes in the mouth and other times don't. They could include a blindfold, or they could have open eye sockets. Gags and blindfolds also part of the lingerie set if a mask is not used. Shirts or top pieces are mixtures of leather and chains. There are options for women which include halter tops, tops with straps both thick and thin. There are also gloves for both those being dominated and those who are dominating. Leather straight-jackets or straight-jacket gloves are also part of the BDSM lingerie.

Below the chest, BDSM lingerie offers more items combining chains and leather. Leather and chain thongs are a favorite, with crotch less leather underwear conducive to foreplay. Of course handcuffs are often used, and considered part of the lingerie. Below that comes hosiery or stockings. Then either leather boots, both knee high and higher, or heels.

Generally speaking, BDSM lingerie incorporates toys as a part of the role so the distinction between the two goes often unseen. Be sure to avoid them if you have severe allergies so that you do not have an allergic reaction to the chain or the leather against your skin. Washing cannot simply be a gentle cycle in the wash, but hand washing for each piece as necessary.

Do not try for the items such as the leather face masks or the straight-jackets unless you and your partner have discussed safety first. Within a BDSM relationship the plus size lingerie is not the only part, but the deep trust in one another and knowledge that no real harm will come.