Nowadays WhatsApp statuses are getting very popular with quotes like this “Pain shapes a Girl into a Woman”. People put it on their statuses, whenever they feel they are going through a tough time. Once I saw a girl to put this quote in her WhatsApp status. I became very curious about the meaning of it. Moreover, I wanted to know the reason for writing it. I asked her what happened and why did she put her status like that. Do you know what she replied? She told that her boyfriend left her, so she was broken these days but now she is trying to be stronger and recovering from the shock and anger. She learned a lot from this incident. A lot of pain she has been through. That has made her even stronger.

Girls specially put this quote as their status because it is related to them. That was the first time I felt that each people have their own opinion on the pre-written quotes written by some people with awesome humour. Like, if you ask people, “What does this quote mean or How can you relate your situation to this quote”, 80% of them will answer almost the same. That is, “This quote is about the girls who go through a lot of discrimination, mocking, and heartbreaks, and that makes them stronger day by day. They learn a lot from these and become mature. And through this learning, one becomes a woman from an immature girl”. We see the quote and think about the physical aspect but not the mental aspect.
In my opinion 80% of the people including boys or men, what they say is right, but partially. We the girls are someone’s daughter, someone’s sister, someone’s wife, someone’s mother. We are related to many people. But, we sometimes forget about our own existence and devote ourselves to some of our close people invite more and more pain to ourselves.

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There are many types of pain that we girls experience in our life. Starting from birth, when she is born, she cries only because she feels some pain while starting her own organs to work. The respiratory system, the other organs also starts working. Then the small life begins its life as a girl. Gradually the girl enters her childhood, and then in the teenage, the pain occurs for the first time when she enters one of the most important phases of her life when she experiences her menstrual cycle for the first time.

After entering this phase, she becomes shy, gentle, very quiet and calm all so sudden. She will be more careful about what she does and what she talks about. The feminism inside her starts to ooze out day by day, month by month her physical and mental development makes her mature with various experiences in her life.

Then she crosses her teenage life and enters into the adult phase. Heartbreaks, betrayals and many other complexities start showing up in her life. She receives so much of mental pain from her beloved ones too. Some have a boyfriend problem, some have a family problem, some have career problems, some already have some marital problems. All these are some demons of hell that creep into one’s real-world to give pain, masked as burdens. Love-life is a big problem in this phase. There are many types of problems in relationships, that I am not going to discuss here. And obviously they are the reasons why one feels the mental pressure that amounts to another type of pain.

Then comes the most important, sensitive, painful, phase of a girl’s life when she gets pregnant. Pregnancy is the privilege of experiencing God’s miracles on earth. It is like “In my flesh shall I see God”. Nowhere, is this more apparent than in the experience of pregnancy. Science has made it possible to witness the baby’s growth on a sonogram. Once you see that, there’s no turning back. Watching and feeling this little miracle growing inside you, knowing that one day you will hold this child in your hands is one of the greatest moments that one can experience in life. Nine months of waiting comes to an end one day. She gives birth to her child, she forgets how much pain as she had borne. Nine months of pain disappear in one moment when she sees her own child, wrapped in a towel, the small hands and legs, pinkish skin with little eyes and mouth and a cute nose makes her the happiest person ever. No other thing is as precious as her child at that moment. For her child, she can bear any pain leave anything, from that day, her only motto of life is to raise her child. Make it a good human being. She becomes a very mature and patient mother and a right decision-maker; her thinking power and foresight power becomes stronger. She becomes a “Woman”.

(This article contains the writer’s opinion only. The quote is pre-written and the author has just selected a few of them for analysis. This is just the explanation of how the author could see meanings in these quotes. There can be so many other opinions also. Being a female, the writer thought it would be only appropriate to talk on the status of females rather than males. Men could be also victims of many of these problems mentioned here. Since it is not the direct experience writer prefers not to talk about them. Thank you.)