Deliciouslingeries.comIn March 2010, after a friend introduced, my husband and I met, should belong to fall in love at first sight, a few days later, we determined the relationship and cohabitation.The first year, we love, the husband is also very caring and considerate to me, a doting, so do I take care of him very much, marriage lives, every day is full of sunshine.


The second year, I just heard that he and units at the front desk girl, and is often come home late at night.I didn't get to see things are skeptical, I thought that he so considerate to me, how to still have spare time to take care of the other girls?There must be something he is naughty, friends more than the elder brothers, will often late.


Later, I am not he often late, and he put forward a break up, he confess is in love with the girl.I'm hit, during implode, his elder brothers accused him, he may still have feelings for me too, busy before long, he come back to me again, we made up.


The husband is a more thoughtful man, always make me, for my parents are also very filial piety, often not very good elegant evening dresses in your case, even send money to my parents, so my parents were more like him.


Is not without contradictions between us, I'm a quick temper, is often thought of what say what, want to buy directly with he buy anything, so, the day of work for a long time we still has no savings.


Although life stumbling, conflict between, we got married last year, it was not long before I was pregnant, in January this year, because of something, we quarrel again,, I casually say children, etc Born we divorce, now think really have no brain, couples quarrel again how also can't use a divorce when angry words, but it has been said that exports, I too late to regret, the husband began to cold war with me, I ignored him, when I have more than seven months pregnant, don't let him drive me to and from work.


I thought my husband a few days, he will come back to me like before, I think is wrong, the cold war for celebrity dress a long time, the husband still ignored me, have to me in a few days ago, my husband suddenly said to me, wait for me having a child go to divorce.


I don't know what to do.Though divorce is I, I admit that is my angry words, I didn't really want to divorce, the child was born...The child was born just a few days, he offered to children such as the full moon, go to handle divorce formalities, attitude is very firmly, said to me, even if I don't agree with, he will choose separation and then Sue divorce.


Recently, I wonder why he is so firmly, I just know, he met a girl, two people talk, love each other for a long time grew up as a souvenir, the girl know that he is married, still don't mind.My husband, he admitted, said they did not happen, he also won't let someone become a third party, even if together, will be clear to start after a divorce.


Zheng teacher, what should I do now, is it because I am an angry words, he is determined to divorce with me, and I think our marriage, and not to the point of not save, let alone children are so small!


Zhu Yan


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Zhu Yan:


Many couples, especially young couples, in a little contradiction quarrel, ready to hang "divorce" two words in her mouth, in fact, this also is just a moment's anger at that time, if you can blurt out the words "qi", it seems that the two words, also few, also greatly can scare the other role!In fact, when the word "divorce" more "talk", slowly will become a celeb dresses "mantra" and the threat of a "paper tiger", said "divorce" said number, virtually in the subconscious of husband and wife have the "want" divorce "feeling bad", it will not really spend little by little the true feelings of between husband and wife, also not line In addition to the one big fight ", "husband and wife quarrel or upgrade for be tempted, an impulse to the ministry of civil affairs regarding the" marriage "so really in a fog of give away!Therefore, no matter how couples quarrel, how big a backlog of "hatred" between each other, don't easily when quarrel impulse easily say two words "divorce", so as to avoid serious, but is too late to regret!


Also true that, of course, if you just for the first time in a marriage and husband quarrel blurt out "divorce", and his behavior is really the potential and the cold war with you, to lend you the header is really tough to divorce, that your marriage is not because of your "grudge" and from "a slip of the tongue", but your marriage is really a very serious problem, true to the point of divorce, or he does the fact that the derailment, his heart was not in your this son, is looking for you at this for a "mistake", dead to tie up the divorce you, if so, are not necessarily your fault, you just gave him a plot, seeking an excuse.


If otherwise, then he offered to you frankly the fact that an affair, it is enough to illustrate that he is holding is looking for a chance to get rid of you, I don't want to live with you, and he is cheating is one day, two days, at least in the gears, or even longer, or else how can to the point of divorce?!


But even if he is determined to also want to and you divorce, not necessarily can succeed, according to the provisions of the marriage law in China, the wife during pregnancy and lactation, the husband can't divorce, this is in the protection of the legitimate rights and interests of you and your children, that is to say, you can at least have two to three years time, give you to rethink your marriage problems, find out the problem to make up for, but if the man really to the small three outside ruthless, no mood to you, you have to really think to themselves, the marriage there is no need to continue, even if a divorce, nor let he and small three wishful thinking, even if can't send this to cheat men and women on the legal trial, have to let them taste the taste of moral scaffold!
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